It
can be hard to know when someone is really into you. Figuring out
someone’s feelings, especially if they don’t even know them yet,
can be difficult and actually pretty nerve wrecking. This is
definitely the case for guys, who may not always be the best at
communicating how they feel. And if you are really into this guy, you
are probably anxious to know how he feels about you, or if he likes
you as much as you do like him. If you are ready to really understand
your crush or love interest’s feelings, here are 7 things he will
do if he is totally in love with you.
His
eyes tell it all.
The
biggest sign that a guy is into exists in the way he looks at you. He
may not say it, but if he is falling for you, he will look at you
like you are sent straight from heaven.
He
makes you a priority.
People
only make time for what they want, and usually make excuses when they
aren’t that interested. If your guy is busy –
whether
it be with work, school or friends – and he still consistently
makes time for you, this is a pretty obvious sign that he really
cares about you.
He
accepts you for who you are.
Some
guys might want you to act or dress a certain way to appease their
needs and desires. But if a guy is really into you, he will accept
you for who you are, willingly and lovingly.
He
gives you constructive criticism.
If
a guy doesn’t really care about you, they won’t be invested
enough to tell you when you’re off your game. They could easily
witness you being self-destructive or making poor decisions, and not
care enough to give you feedback. But a guy that really loves you
will call you out on your stuff, because they care enough about you
to help you be your best self.
He
supports your aspirations.
A
guy that really cares about you will not only hope you achieve your
dreams, but will actively support you in doing so. Does he do things
like help you brainstorm new ideas for your business, study
constantly with you for school, or even physically show up for your
personal or professional endeavors? He is definitely falling for
you.
He
is reliable even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable.
You
can really see how a person feels about you by observing their
behavior in inconvenient situations. Does he still make sure you are
okay after an argument? Does he help you run errands even if it cuts
into his free time? Little, but good deeds like this show his true
character and feelings for you.
He
includes you in his life.
If a guy isn’t really into you, you won’t know much about his life outside of his interaction with you. If you know all your guy’s best friends, his favorite hang out spots and hobbies – or even if he just constantly updates you about his day – this guy is definitely falling in love with you.
