So
you’ve met someone new, and all you can see are hearts everytime
you are around him. Your interaction with him seems like something
straight out of a fairytale. But something in the back of your mind
is telling you that your new perfect guy could be a little too
perfect. But can there be such a thing as too perfect? Before you get
wrapped up in your new love affair, here are some signs that the new
guy you like is too good to be true.
He’s
sugary sweet.
Everyone
loves a compliment. But if your guy is coming on super strong with
the smooth, sweet talk, he may not be genuinely complimenting you. He
could be trying to win your heart for the wrong reasons.
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Things
are progressing way too fast.
If
he seems like he is ready to commit before you even know his middle
name, this is a sign that there may be an underlying problem under
the surface. He could merely be moving too fast and not know you well
enough to make a major commitment – or he could have a controlling
side that you don’t know about.
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has no flaws, that you know of.
Anyone
who is so perfect that they seem to do or say no wrong, is likely too
good to be true. We all have flaws and weaknesses – its the reality
of life and human nature. So if he doesn’t appear to have any
flaws, this likely means he is hiding them, and that is never a good
sign. You may not even be getting to know the real person behind the
perfectly crafted exterior.
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He
keeps his phone in his hand at all times.
A
guy who can never leave his phone unattended has got something to
hide. If he is super weird about his phone –
such
as always having to take it with him even when he leaves a room for a
moment –
this
guy is probably playing the field and doesn’t want you to know when
other girls call or text him.
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is super arrogant.
There
is nothing wrong with a guy being confident. It is actually pretty
attractive when someone is confident in who they are and what they
bring to the table. But if his confidence borderlines arrogance
before you’ve even gotten really serious in the relationship, you
could be in for a rude awakening down the line. He will likely become
more arrogant and self-centered as he grows more comfortable with
you, which could leave little room for consideration of your feelings
and needs.
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He
never calls you by your name.
Terms of endearment are adorable once you’ve gotten to know your partner. But using pet names takes getting to know them and finding a specific name that fits their personality. If your guy is constantly calling you generic pet names way too soon, this is a sign he is too good to be true. He is likely calling you a generic pet name so he doesn’t mistake your name for another girl that he is dating.
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